Run your own race
Sustain issue #57 (Get Sustain in your inbox next Thursday)
Several weeks ago I ran my second half marathon and my first since 2017.
When I did my last long training run two weeks before the race, I went at the pace I expected to run. I knew the pace was sustainable for me especially considering the route contained a few hilly stretches.
I felt prepared and ready to go heading into my race day.
As the starting gun went off and I took off down the street, I was immediately in a situation I had not practiced and somehow failed to think about as I was preparing. Since I trained alone, I wasn’t used to others running around me. Running solo allowed me to feel good whatever my pace was.
But as I started down the street, I was in a huge pack of hundreds of other racers. And I immediately got caught up in the speed those around me were running.
About three miles into my race, I looked down at my watch and realized I was going at a pace about 45 seconds/mile faster than I had practiced. And not only that, true to form around here it was raining.
Typically I plan my practice days around when it’s not going to rain since I don’t like running in those conditions (silly me).
I felt tired and wondered how I was going to pump out ten more miles. I was running at a faster pace than I anticipated as my sustainable mark, I was wearing a rain jacket which is not quite as breathable as what I usually run in, and I was dealing with a mix of sweat and precipitation in my eyes.
I was trying to flourish in difficult conditions which is never a recipe for success.
I allowed my pace to be influenced by those around me. I wasn’t running my own race.
Around that same three-mile mark, I had a decision to make: Keep going as I was and risk not finishing or to run my own race. I decided to drop into my own pace, even though that meant other racers passing me and dealing with the feelings that brought on.
I ended up finishing within just a few seconds of my first half marathon. I didn’t accomplish my goal of finishing in under two hours but I feel accomplished given the wetter and hillier conditions.
Just like running at a pace that’s sustainable for you over the long journey of a race, we also must work at a pace that allows us to do the same. Work is not a 100-meter dash. It’s a long marathon we must pace ourselves for.
You may see co-workers doing the 100-meter dash. And they might pull ahead in the short term. But work is a distance running event, not a short-track event.
Every long-distance running coach will give their athletes the same advice: Run your own race. We should work that way too.
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